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The self love fix podcast is a podcast dedicated to helping young women delve deeper into their inner child to help them cultivate within themselves self love, self worth, and high self esteem. Join Host and Inner Child Healing coach, Beatrice Kamau as you laugh, cry, grow, and learn the truth of who you are and what you deserve.

Mar 23, 2023

I don’t actually believe in the idea of “lowering” your standards.

I don’t believe that STANDARDS can be lowered. A standard is something that just IS. It is the way things are, no unless, ifs, ands, or buts…

And if you disagree, I’m willing to bet you haven’t been setting standards. I think you’ve been setting conditions.

If your “standards” rely on outside factors and are constantly lowering and raising depending on what you’re experiencing, guess what? That’s not a standard. 

And if you want to actually attract what you SAY you truly want, we need to sit down and get solid about what your standards truly are…



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