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The self love fix podcast is a podcast dedicated to helping young women delve deeper into their inner child to help them cultivate within themselves self love, self worth, and high self esteem. Join Host and Inner Child Healing coach, Beatrice Kamau as you laugh, cry, grow, and learn the truth of who you are and what you deserve.

Aug 25, 2022

Let's talk entitlement and scarcity...and how the two actually go together.
Entitlement says, "I deserve a relationship, because I am a wonderful person. I am a catch. I'm amazing." Scarcity says, "I can't have what I want (or deserve) because there isn't enough to go around, so I'm going to turn whatever I have into the thing that I feel I deserve."
When both of these mindsets show up to a party together, only trouble can come out of it, right? No matter what you might think, these attitudes aren't going to get you the relationship you're looking for. You know why?
The universe doesn't owe you a relationship just because you're a nice or fun or cool person. You can't just show up and expect it to fall into your lap. You have to do the work...and there is work to do. There is a way to get what you want. But you have to learn how to get rid of that entitlement mindset first.
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